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hello dear!
I can understand how you feel,and most girls are like that,they play hard to get,and are proud and even arrogant.what I feel is,though you feel lonely because of all this,remember that you can always be happy,it is a feeling from within that does not depend on anything outside at all!be happy all your life,develop that happiness,it is all always within.you are a wonderful person,and though no one will come up to you and tell you that.so concentrate on 'looking' your best,on 'feeling' your best and most of all,'feeling confident'.the feeling confident part is something you have to develop too,just believe in yourself ,man!you are the best,so dont depend on anyone to tell you that,and know that people are not in the habit of complimenting anyone,it is a natural thing that they dont compliment each other on how nice anyone is,you know what i mean?unless,they make it a habit ,or a point to.so you do it instead!try complimenting people on how nice/good/goodlooking etc...they are.say it from the heart.and tell everyone you care,that you do care!show them that.show the people you cherish,that you do,and tell them that,in a private conversation.laugh a lot,hug people you love,i think you get the picture.then everyone can even be friends for life,they surely will be.just be the good person that you already are!that is enough for others to take notice,if you are happy and make them happy too!thats important in life,none of the other material stuff is.see,if girls just want guys for their money,then you dont need such people,but mostly,naturally girls need to be told,all the time,that they are fabulous!believe me!I am one!and its true.so be yourself,you are a gem ,man,in the eyes of God atleast.pray often,and make it a habit to develop all your good qualities,surely you will find some really nice person,to be friends with,or to be your girl friend!and to tell you the truth,people are naturally selfish,we all are,and no one is to be blamed for that.so go ahead,start enjoying your life,being happy,makin others happy etc!boredom is there only if you leave your mind idle.so acc. to me,give it something repetitive to do,like chant God's name,or like any creative stuff like your hobbies,or things that interest you....music,painting?be yourself,and be yourself always,dont be like someone else.wishing you the very best,neeti.
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