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Photobucket" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

I've had my share of ups-and-downs (don't we all) and I'm more than willing enough to help those that ask.

In fair warning: I won't give answers that are "gusshied with sprinkles on top" (or whatever things that that line follows). I will be blunt if the situation calls for it...either you take the honest words or brush it off and go search for a lie~ all in all, it's entirely your choice.
Advice is simply there for people to brood and consider over, not a forceful act.

So feel free to ask me whatever you wish to be answered and the advice shall slide over these keyboards~ ^-^


"If it's free, it's advice; if you pay for it, it's counseling;
if you can use either one, it's a miracle."
-Jack Adams-

"If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it,
If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
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I'm a freshman in high school and turned 14 about 5 months ago. Over the summer I started dating this guy, whose name will be X for the sake of saving space and keeping my identity somewhat hidden. X is my first boyfriend and he's a great guy. Our problem is that we go to two different schools. I barely get to see him. The last time we hung out was about 2 months ago. We've been keeping our relationship a secret because my parents are extremely idiotic and think that their daughter (me) shouldn't have a boyfriend until she's 16 at least. So because of this I can't leave my house to see him because I know they won't take me anywhere. A few weeks ago my dad found out about me and X because my brother was a snitch and told him. My dad yelled at me for a while but never told me to break up with X so I haven't. I love X but its pretty much impossible to see him unless he sneaks over like last time. What the heck should I do?

Parents are naturally overprotective of who their kids are "hanging out" with. But keeping a relationship secret would cause parents to eventually find out from whatever sources they have, which is what happened with your dad. And it seems that your dad hasn't mentioned about your relationship to your mom...which probably means that he wants YOU to be able to tell her instead of him.
Take the chance now to sit down and discuss it with your parents. Let them know that you really love X and that you both haven't crossed the line or anything. Talking it over with them rather than brooding over what to do next and keeping it a secret for longer, shows that you've done a mature thing because you had the guts to stand up for yourself and X! Plus, hopefully your parents begin to trust you more since you let them know of what's going on. They don't show it for a couple of...days, weeks even...but they have to come to the fact that you're responsible for this relationship and that they have to trust you in it. Tough to admit but...trust can have many surprises~

Hoped this helped a little and I wish you luck! =3

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