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I am a mother of (9) and an wife i also have my own Gift Basket store with Candles prices ranges from$ 5-$40,i am also an author, i love candles because i feel it relaxes you from an hard days work,i begin this business 2 years ago me and my husband was talking and he told me why don't i start an advice column since i was always giving advice so now i am.i have really getting into knowing my true self now i have gotten more into tarot reading i believe it is my calling.
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I've known my best friend for at least half of my life and suddenly, out of nowhere, she's stopped talking to me. I saw her at school recently right before the break but she completely ignored me. I haven't done anything wrong. I thought she loved me but she obviously doesn't care. I keep thinking that maybe I did something terribly wrong without realizing it, but I can't come up with anything. She was going through some issues with a guy that she really liked who disappeared from her life, but I think that if something happened with regards to him, she would tell me. We never got into a fight and always understood each other very well or at least tried to, but I guess that our friendship is over now. I called her to see if maybe something was wrong but when she heard my voice on the phone she didn't say anything back. It's been like 2 weeks since we talked. I just don't get it. I really needed her, she was my everything, and now I guess I have to start over without her. If anyone can help in any way, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you.
i can relate i once had an best friend for 20 years and i did stop talking to her but she was the reason why. but for you try to call her or go to her house and ask her if you two can talk ,letting her know that it's hurting you really bad that at time you just want to cry cause you don't know what happen between you two and it will make you both feel better if you can talk about it . if she still don't want to talk then you can( let it go )knowing you tryed to fix whatever happen, and don't worry about it anymore
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Thank you so much. I will call her again, however, I don't think I can go to her house. She won't come out for me. But you are right. I have to move on if she doesn't want me in her life anymore. You know, all this time that I've known her she's always believed in me because I was suffering from low self esteem issues for a while and she told me she would help me. However, we never got a chance to talk about my issues and try to get to the bottom of them because we were supposed to do it around now. But it has made me realize that I can't depend on other people to fix my problems for me. And in a huge way her letting me go has actually made me want to take control of my own life and search for my happiness. So in a way this may be the end of something, but the start of a new life for me. Anyways, I hope that you also felt the same after losing your friend and that you are a happy person because of it. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.
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