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I am a mother of (9) and an wife i also have my own Gift Basket store with Candles prices ranges from$ 5-$40,i am also an author, i love candles because i feel it relaxes you from an hard days work,i begin this business 2 years ago me and my husband was talking and he told me why don't i start an advice column since i was always giving advice so now i am.i have really getting into knowing my true self now i have gotten more into tarot reading i believe it is my calling.
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Website: Dear AskShay
E-mail: askshay1@ymail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Member Since: December 29, 2008
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Last Update: November 9, 2011
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ok so there's this guy that I like ! & I thought he was the greatest thing that ever happened to me(relationship wise) because I never trusted anyone as quickly as I gave my trust to him . he made me believe him when he said that he would never cheat on me! I felt that I had my guards up for too long and that I really wanted to be in a relationship where I was cared for/loved . was I wrong for wanting that? so it was thanksgiving when I met him . we exchanged numbers and he called me later that night . we just talked and stuff . & I absolutely loved his voice . wellllll . 7 days later he asked me out and I said yeah . then my mom brought me to her sister's house (he lives by her) and I was outside with him and his friends . his friends were trying to talk to me and kept askin me if I thought they were cute (which one of them was) and he was like "chill out" and we were just like cuddling and stuff . then I kissed him and it just felt like it was my first kiss ever (which it was not) .
then my parents and grandparents and stepparent started to not like how he was . because he dresses in "thug"ish clothing . & I started to like him more (i don't know if as an act of rebellion)but the more I started to like him the more it seemed like he didn't realize how much I did and didn't seem to care. ohhhh and did I mention there's a girl who claims that she's his girlfriend (she messaged me on myspace) but he told me no . so I looked at his myspace and she was first on his tops. so I asked him about it and he said it was old and that he had to change it but out of all the times he signed on the only thing he changed was that big pic of her on his page(she's still on his tops)i cried sooooooo hard last night and I couldn't stop for anythinggg . I don't want anyone elseeeee BUT him . & I really mean it . I want him to want me back

what's wronggggg ! =(

first of all if he said he will never cheat on you
and all of an sudden this girl popups, then we have an communication problem .sound like you really dig this guy but he don,t dig you, so my advice will be (LET HIM AND HIS MYSPACE CHICK GO!)
there are other fish in the pound, so no more crying find someone who will givve you that attention you deserve.


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(Rating: 4) thank you soooo much :-)

it's just that I want to find someone like him . (not the bad things though)


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