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hi guys.
so.... i'm very attracted to women. i date a lot of girls and with what i've heard i'm a pretty likable guy (i.e. girls like me). but lately i've found myself to be attracted to guys too... and the thought of getting sexual with a man seems to arouse me just as much as getting sexual with a woman...
so, am i bi/metro/whatever.... or do you think it's just a phase? to be honest, i feel like i'd be ok with being bi. i'm no homophobe; in fact i have quite a few gay friends. but i don't know if i for sure am bi though.... but if i am i don't know how i would tell anyone. i'd feel really scared to tell anyone i think (i go to an all-male catholic school)... and god knows what my girlfriend would think...
thanks guys. i really appreciate all you do on this site. (link)
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eh, you might just be curious. it's really common for people to question their sexuality sometime during their life, especially when their teenagers. and what this one person said(i was looking at what other people had said)that if your comfortable with the thought of being bi and liking guys and having sex or whatever with them then yeah your bi. but i think you should kinda think hard if you would really be fine with dating a guy, because this could kinda be a phase, but it could also be true. just believe what you think is right.
and as for telling people, if you feel like telling your family and a few close friends just tell them. i know this probably isn't an expected response and seems untrue but your family will still love you, things might be awequard for a while but it will end eventually. i know this because I'm Bi and one of my old best friends was gay and his parents were like homo phobics, and even though his dad made fun of him sorta at times they still basically excepted it. lol and as for this male catholic school...i really wouldn't be extremely open about it, thats probably not a real smart choice.
just do you what you feel is right, if your think your bi and your fine with it...then your bi. its not a crime.
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