I don't think he hates you, but you've put him in a really awkward position. Guys with girlfriends should be off limits until they break up. He rightfully freaked out, and that is a sign that he is happy with who he has. Saying that he'll screw you might of been just some stupid macho pride game; a lot of guys talk much bigger than they are. Don't take him seriously. And certainly don't become the other woman. It's demeaning to everyone involved, especially you. If he ends up liking you in the future, he should be man enough to be with only you. If not, you need to find someone who respects women enough not to have multiple girlfriends at the same time. Leave him alone; he may eventually break up with his girlfriend and give you a chance, or, more probable, you may find someone better.

Good luck and much love!

~TD

thanks; i now have a better understanding of how he reacted and why he reacted that way. thanks;

I'm back after a hiatus! I have graduated college (yay!) and am working with Thoroughbred racehorses in Kentucky.

I enjoy giving advice to teens because now that I am older, I have a proper perspective of high school, but I am close enough in age that I don't think I'll come off as some idiot with adult problems that has no idea how teenage life works. Generally I answer love life questions, since that is where many self-image problems surface-not to mention it's highly confusing! If you are wondering about my own love life... well, I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years. We are getting married once he finishes law school, and yes! We are high school sweethearts!

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