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Q: Hi Im a female 17. lately I´ve been having lots of problems with my mom cause She went throught my cellphone and found a really x rated...erotic whatever you want to call it conversation with my bf (which she didn´t even know I had) it was about 6 messages long. And now she calls me hoe, vulgar. and says Im a minor and lots of crap. Im 17 and i think I have a right to explore my sexuality but safely, which I do. It sucks because now she makes me feel like crap with sarcasms and she even went to the cellphone company to check up on my messages and to who i write them. Its a total invasion of privacy i can´t even text my bf anymore and i don´t know what to do cause i really like him and my mom is making me want to seriusly die or kill myself.
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hey there sorry to hear about your issue with your mother, believe me i have seen my fair share with mine so i completely understand where you're coming from. what i would suggest you do is confront you mother with how you are feeling, tell her that you dont feel its right for her to be snooping through your personal belongings and if she wants to know what is going on in your life just to ask. Also explain to her that you're not a little girl anymore, that she has to let you be in charge of your own future and you would like to be able to come to her when you have a problem instead of being called a name or being accused of something your not. im not sure if you find it hard to talk with your mother but believe me it will help a great deal with trust so that way she isnt invading your life and accusing you of things even if you dont tell her everything coming to her and talking with her about what going on in your life will help. she probably is just feeling like you are pushing her out of your life because you're growing up so fast, going out with friends and not spending as much time with her, that she feels left in the dark, especially the fact that she didnt even know you had a boyfriend of six months.
if you have any other questions feel free to ask
good luck with your mom!
Brittni
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Thankyou for understanding me. I really really love this guy and i know he loves me back cause he´s putting up with many things that my mom has thrown at him. anyone else would´ve gotten somebody else already its not going to be easy...but i´ll try to follow your advice but first ill give her some time to cool off. thanx
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Hello there the names Brittni, I decided to make a site on advicenators because i wanted to help others with their struggles, its a passion of mine, i hope one day to achieve my dream of opening a center for teens. Let it be known that i will never judge you based on a question you ask, i will simply give you an answer i find fitting, but dont expect me to candy coat my answer, im going to be honest. In the past i have been faced with many difficult things and looking back i am confident i made the right decisions. I've been through a lot personally, i've heard a lot, I've seen a lot, I've grown a lot. Heck, i know im not perfect but im the best version of myself i can be which is perfection in my eyes. I know sometimes speaking to someone you know about your issue is hard, trust me i've been there. Just like i have helped others i am here to help you with the best intentions. So i am here for you if you need me.
never feel hesitant when asking me a question, leave me one in my inbox and i will get back to you as soon as possible.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA AIM: Member Since: July 19, 2006 Answers: 166 Last Update: March 9, 2009 Visitors: 11488
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