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Q: Hello im 17 and im a female. Normally im the type that can read people very well but i came across this HUG problem! see im a new girl at this school, the girls here are all sl*ts. i hate to say it, even some of the guys are like the girls. Anyways thats not the point its just whats making this even harder for me.

There's this cute guy, his name starts with a 'J' and i really like him. We've been friends for a month now; before we just talk here an there. But like now were talking everyday in school and we text when were out. Well one day when i was freezing in history he let me wear his hoodie (this was in school) when class was over i said "Well i guess you would like your hoodie back" and started to take it off. but then he told me to keep it on and give it to him after school, then he gave me this sweet smile as we walked out of class together. Well when school was letting out i gave back his hoodie, in return he hugged me( you would know what a friend hug was, this hug was not no friends good bye hug, it felt like more.) Then the next day he waited for me after all my classes almost, It was soo sweet that i ended up calling him a sweetie (That got a smile from him like the one in history) I know these are signs he likes me, he even said so him self on the phone one day. But im afraid that he's just playing me and im just another score. I just dont know what to do, my heart is tell me one thing and my head is telling me another.

Please....Please.. help me! I cant figure this out.

below is some signs he has been giving me in the last few weeks.

* He called me Sweetie and sexy

* Walks me to my classes (or close to them)

* Sends me cute chain letters that has some form or ther other of love.

* Sits with me at lunch and in history.

* Talks to everyday (That includes texting)

* Giving me his stuff to wear (That hoodie wasnt the only thing he gave me to wear)


Hey. You havent really said anything that would make him a player...i say give him a chance and go for it, but if he has a past of playing girls, then let him work for you. if he wants you bad enough hell try, and if hes just playing you hell give up. I hope it works out...if you need any other help, leave it in my inbox. Goodluck!

Thank you and if i have anything else i need to ask i will ask again. You give awsome advice and i will take it in. -cross fingures_ i hope hes not a player. ^_^ well thank again.

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