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My friend send me a text saying we can't no longer be friends. We were the best of friends, confide in one another with our problems and issues. I depended on her and she knew she could count on me. This is what apparently did it for her:
She invited me to her bff's wedding and I told her I would go. She emailed me info on the wedding but when I replied she didnt' respond. I got really sick for 3 days and didn't call her nor did she. Then came Thanksgiving and the day after she text me "you should have told me you couldn't make it to the wedding" the event was a day after Thanksgiving. I replied what are you talking about you didn't call me to confirm. She then said we could no longer be friends.........
She holds against me that she didn't make it to her bff's wedding. I mean if you invite someone to a special event isn't it that person's responsibility to follow up and plan things out? I did say I would go but got really sick and since she didn't call I didn't know what was going on..............
She also holds against me her bday. We were suppose to celebrate it at a club and when I text her (a few minutes before we left) if my friend could go she wrote "go with her & take care" I text her back "nah it's your bday" she kept saying "no go and have fun" I did go and she holds that against me.............
Now where did I go wrong?
You should have called her about the wedding. She should have called you about the wedding. There is know one person to blame. You BOTH could have done something. Drop the birthday thing. Who cares, is she 3?! ANyway, if you really want her as a friend, regardless of wether or not you think shes wrong apologize. For everything including the birthday party thing. JUst be like i was being a bad friend when that happend and i'm sorry admit your at fault, even if your not.
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(Rating: 3) Thank's but to be honest I don't quite agree with you. I feel that if you do wrong you ought to say your SORRY but if you aren't why should you. As much as she took the initiative to break up a friendship over this why should I be the one agreeing with her at all times. I feel I didn't od nothing wrong I mean why didn't she follow up, aren't we friends. I am just going to let it go, this was her decision and that's that.......
Thanks for your help