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18/f
still a virgin
so my boy wants me to give him head. i've never really done anything like this before, and when i'm on my period i want to be able to do something for him you know? well the thing is i am nervous, obviously. i don't want to embarass myself by being horrible at it. he has only been with one other girl, and i know she did everything with him which worries me because what if i'm not as good as she was? some questions i have are:

1. is it really as awkward and disgusting as it may seem? i think the penis is actually pretty gross, but i am very attracted to my boy, he turns me on like no other.
2. i don't want to swallow, i actually don't really want that in my mouth at all, but i also don't want it getting all over the place
3. is there anything i should for sure do or NOT do?
4. i heard from somewhere that you use a condom when you give someone head, but that doesn't seem right?

well i know sometimes you can't really go into depth on here, so if you can't answer any of these questions i would appreciate if you could e-mail me or something (i'll give you my e-mail in feedback) if it's not too much trouble. thank you very much and happy thanksgiving :)

Dont be nervous. Relax and be confident and you will be fine.

1. I dont believe in the "if you love each other its not akward" concept. I think that if its your first time its totally natural to feel alittle akward because your unsure of what your doing. Like I said just relax. And no, in my opinion its not as gross as you would think.

2.If you dont want to swallow have a cup or tissue handy to spit in.

3. Cant answer.

4. Condoms are really only neccessary if your out hooking up w/ random ppl that you dont really know. In your case its not really neccessary.

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(Rating: 5) thank you!! if there is anything else i should know, feel free to e-mail me at lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
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