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Ill try to make it as short as possible.
I've always been a hopeless romantic. I'm 17 years old and a few weeks ago i met the perfect guy...or so i thought. he was exactly my type and seemed to be completely into me. he acted so sweet and treated me just like a girlfriend. we went out a few times, and were together in school. everyone was talking about us being together, which i didn't really like because technically he never asked me to be his girlfriend. i was really falling for him and i think it showed, because it was hard to say no whenever he wanted to hang out. and the thing is, i know better. ive had my heart broken before by the same type of charmer and i really tried not putting all my feelings into this new guy. thing is i dont like to play games. i always treat people right and dont believe in hurting someone or making them jealous just to make them want me. i dont do that, and i thought he didnt either because we talked about it. i thought we were the same type of person, but hes a guy...and they lie...
so in the past few days he stopped being so sweet, and showing less interest in me, and just forgetting about me, but then randomly showing up like he cares and giving interest. he became randomly cold and then sweet. I'm really confused and kind of hurt. did he really lose interest or is he playing games? he randomly shows interest and then doesn't, when he was always sweet in the beginning. and i cant say anything because he never actually asked me to be his girlfriend. still he expects me to call him and always let him know what I'm doing. what happened? and if he has moved on y is he still showing interest??? can anyone make sense of this???? (link)
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trust me, i'm going through the same thing.Its like one day he'll be really flirty with you,the next? not even a single glance. What i've found out about me and this kind of boy, is once a player,always a player. nothing more. it hurts, because they make you fall for them and then throw you out. You don't need someone like that; and you obviously don't have too much in common with him, seeing as you're not the time of person to play games.which is good! When you find a good someone,they'll treat you like gold. Do you think he's seeing other girls? Trust your instinct. He'll try to make you wait until he needs you. Move on, don't give him any excuse to come back to you either. You shouldn't have to wait for anybody. Some one who's really into you;doesn't ignore you for days. Don't call him. Don't look at him as much in school. Once you start ignoring him,he'll probably come to you. But you still can't fall for him then,he just wants you to be "there". Soon he'll know to leave you alone. He'll fade, trust me. Most players like this put on their best faces at first, to get you hooked;then slowly will change. In my opinion, you have to get to know the person for awhile before you say you like them. It helps with filtering out players. If a guy gets physical(sp?) early in a relationship, thats a red light as well. Bottom line, i think you should drop him like he wasn't even importent.If anyone asks,just say YOU lost interest. It'll burn his player status that he trys to keep. Players are insecure. they feel like they need to be a player to be cool. If you drop one of them, they'll try to get you back. Leave him! good luck,you'll get through this!
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Rating: 5
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thanks! =] its going to be hard but i guess your right!
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