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Im a 16/m. Today my kinda girlfriend told me that she started talking to her ex and her feelings came back for him. I say kinda because i never asked her to be my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to be in a relationship. I told her that if im keeping them apart then i would stop talking to her. She said she cant be with him right now but she didn't say why i think it was a distance thing. Then she told me that she still wants to talk as friends but i cant do that she already hurt me before i don't think i could take it again. So i said goodbye and i asked her if she could stop talking to me completely so i could get over it faster. I don't know what to do i feel sick ive been crying for the past 4 hours and i have to see her tomorrow at school i have her for my last class of the day. And i see her in the halls.
Can someone help me.Tell me about your experiences, or how to get over this, something to look forward to; should i try to get back with her or let her go?
Well honey, it seems like this girl broke your heart. Sometimes when people know that you are going to be there for them no matter what, they tend to take you for granted. If you can be just friends with her then you should not shut her out, but if it would kill you inside to see her with someone else then you may have to take a break from her.
You said that that you have to see her in class and it seems like you are pretty broken up about it. How i got over my similar situation was to get my emotions out. I cried until I could not anymore, and then I found things to occupy my time. It sounds lame, but i started to find other things worth thinking about. i started to hang out with my other friends, i focused on my hobbies and things that I may like to do.i was so caught up in my own life that i forgot about the problem.
You seem like a great guy and I think that you backing off so that she can be with her ex was a noble thing for you to do. My advice is to focus on all the good things in your life. If you keep thinking about your problem then you might be missing all the other females that might think that you are a great person. I see it happen all the time!!!!!!! It will work itself out. I believe you will be o.k. before you know it!!!!!! hope this helps!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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Thank you im gunna try keeping my mind of her by keeping myself busy. It's a little hard when everything i do reminds me of her. Well last night when i got off i wrote her a note and gave it to her in the morning with a rose. I held back the tears through out the day but in the last period the one i have with her she didnt show up. And i couldnt hold it in anymore i was expecting a response to my letter the latest then.
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