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i dated this guy for about 2 years and i was in love. its been about 7 months now since weve broken up, and im not over him due to the fact that for the first 5 months after we broke up we would still hangout and he would still tell me he had alot of feelings for me until i couldnt take all of that bullshit anymore. just last month hes been saying that he missed me and that he still loved me.. then i wouldnt hear from him for another couple weeks.. its just confusing and annoying like if he really loved me he would actually be trying, but he doesnt and i just want to be done with it all because ive been so hurt by all his bullshit! anyways!! i really just want to get over him, any advice on ways to forget somenoe you were in love with? i really wish i could find a new guy to replace him and make me forget him but ive been trying and im just not into anybody.. i thought finding a new boyfriend would be much easier but its not at all. i go out a lot with friends but, it doesnt exactly help me get over him? (link)
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wow, i can relate to how you are feeling. not fully, but a little. It sounds to me like you want him back or something. If that is the case, then i think you should do to him what he is doing to you. make him want you. make him feel like how you are feeling right now. like when he says stuff and doesn't talk to you for like 2 weeks. you should think about doing the same but with maybe telling him exactly how you feel, and then ignore him. it will probably make him crazy. i think the really good way is to say how you feel, and then when he texts you back, ignore him. it will bug the shit out of him. or, another thing you can do is like if you are talking, tell him how you feel, and then just interrupt when he wants to respond, and be like "oh my gosh, i gotta go, i just remebered something...bye." i think this could get to him a lot. but even with all this, you seem to have had too much and as you say "have been so hurt by all this bullshit, and want to get over him". To get over him is probably and likely gonna happen in a small period of time. Because it seems like you had a really strong connection. And try to realize that there are more guys. That there is always someone better out there. And that everything will be okay. Keep yourself really busy. Do things that will take your mind off of him like sports or like, things you love to do, stuff that can make you really busy. or join a club or something...this will be good. and crying can help too because it releases all the stress and tension in your body and mind. But anyway. I am very sorry that all this has happened to you, and i hope that everthing gets better soon. you will get through this! goodluck.
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thanks so much! and ya we really were SO close, and i thought we were perfect for eachother and it hurt so much when he broke up with me, and it hurts again when hes playing me like this. and i really do have so much to say to him but idk how to say it without sounding crazy!
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