My name is Angel, and I love helping people. I'm anything but perfect, and I don't expect anyone else to be. I don't judge, and I don't try to make peoples choices for them. I simply try to help in the best way I can. I've been through some very good, and very bad times in my life. They have sculpted me into the beautiful mess you see before you today.
I'm here for anyone who needs anything I have to offer, so don't be afraid to ask, or vent. Whichever will help.
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Age: 19
AIM: ahappebrunette
Member Since: May 23, 2008
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Before I started working where I am, a man's wife died in an auto accident in February. He has two kids from her, now he is alone. I feel bad for him as anyone would. I am married and have two kids of my own too but I have my wife. He has never told me about what happened but others have told me. I never asked, they just mentioned it. My heart goes out to him and I'd like to help him out or at least show him I care without letting him know that I know already. I've actually thought he was a cool dude from the get-go and we'd sometimes step outside to shoot the bull and have a cigarette together. I'm hoping he'll tell me eventually about what happened because I'd like to help him out anyway I can emotionally. I hate seeing people in pain. This guy is miserable and lost without her. What should I do?
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I am very young, but being involved in music allowed me to get to know people. Everywhere i travel and sing it seems like i meet someone new and everyone of them have a story. Something happened to each and everyone of them that made them the person they are today. it's usually something terrible.
The thing is they are still normal people, that event doesn't define them, it just changes them. You have to treat this guy like any other buddy. Just be nice, and invite him out for a drink, to a family bbq, or something. you get the picture. Don't give up on him. Be patient, and just show him you're friend.
When he's ready he'll open up. i know this from experience, i've had many strangers spill they're hearts simply because i had a nice smile, and i cared to listen.
So don't worry so much about getting him to talk, just be his friend. He'll talk when he's good and ready. When he does just let him know you care to hear it.
By the way, i think it's great thing that you're trying to do. Few people have your heart.
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Thanks for the advice...I bought a six pack of beer and left it on his desk with a note, "looks like you could use one or two HAHA!" I'll see Tuesday when I get back to work if he appreciated it or not. :D Thanks!
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