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Hello.
I am engaged to a great guy, I love him to death. I never had sex until I did it with my fiance. He has had sex with two other people before me. Recently he started talking to the girl he first had sex with. He says they are friends and I know that. I don't understand why this is killing me. It bothers the hell out of me that he would randomly start talking to this girl again. All I can think of is that maybe because he has had other people and I haven't.
Someone please help me figure out my feelings.
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Hi,
it's normal for you to feel this way. It's like they always say,"when you have sex for the first time, if it's good, you're usually sprung. That sounds like you and you are jealous because he's talking to someone he was once intimate with.
It's hard dealing with an ex girlfriend. You really have to be secure. If it really bothers you, talk to him about it and tell him it makes you uncomfortable.
If the two of you are going to be married, his only friend of the opposite sex should be you! I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Edidmarie
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Thank you for the advice. I guess I am insecure about the whole thing. I am working on lightening up and just going with the flow. I trust him but don't trust her. I had a dream last night that I kicked her butt so I feel better about it today.
Thanks again,
Kristen
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