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okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((

16/f

give him a little bit of time. i dont know when exactly this happened but i think like 2 days after it happened should be enough. try talkin to him face to face because that always means more and a phone convo or txts or anything like that. just be honest with him and tell him how you feel about him and how miserable you have been since this happened and everything. and maybe try to ahve some of your friends talk to him. dont overwhelm him with ppl talkin to him and dont make it obvious that you asked them to talk to him but maybe have one or 2 friends tell him hhow upset you have been and that your tellin the truth. good luck and i hope it all works out.

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