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Oksy, so I am not in need of a lecture on how I nned to be protected from oregnancy and STD's. I have take the proper precautions; I have been taking BC pills for almost 3 months now and I have condoms on hand. I am planning on doing with someone I trust and care for very much. No need to worry too much, I know the consequences and what-not.
My question is more of what would be the least painful way to lose virgnity. I have never been fingered but am willing to if it helps. Also, I am a rather tiny person so I don't know if that makes a difference. Is the top or bottom better for pain? If it hurts can we stop or is it one of those things that's going to hurt as much on the way out as it did on the way in? Does masterbation make it easier for later? (random detail: i know i get wet rather easily, as in turned on, would this benefit me or make it woerd?)
I am 18/f and he is 22/m if this makes a difference. In Canada that's legal right? As in, the legal consent age is 18 right, not 19? (link)
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When you lose your virginity, of course it will be somewhat painful..but there are ways to make it less painful. Fingering will definately help. Starting off with 1 finger until it doesn't hurt..then 2 until it doesnt hurt..ect. I'm also a tiny person..and the fingering definately helped open me up. Either way, its going to feel sore your first time. Putting it in at first will be a little painful but like i said..fingering will help. If it does hurt, you can take a break. Its not going to be painful to take out but you'll feel sore. The top is definately less painful at least in my experience. You are much more open when you ride on top of your partner then when your under them. Getting wet easily will help when inserting his member but you can also get a KY Jelly that you can put over the condom to make an easier insertion. I don't know if you'd feel comfortable doing this, but you could always buy different sized dildo's or vibrators or something to use on yourself before you have sex. I've never tried it but it would seem to do the same as fingering.
As for the Canada thing..i'm not sure! Sorry
But good luck!
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