i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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Alright so I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into a "friends with benefits" situation and I am in need of some wise thought out advice.
I met this guy a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. He just recently came out of a 3 year relashionship so we aren't going to be rushing int anything. We've seen eachother a fair amount, each time ending in a make-out session. One time he even spent the night... He keeps telling me he doesn't wan't to rush into anything but less than 10 seconds after that he kisses me. I really like him so I just go along with it. I believe I have gotten myself into a friends with benefits situation and I want it to end. Not necesarily the whole relationship but the fact that he is somewhat using me for whatever reaons, consious or not. I'm clueless as to what to say or do to tell him I want "out".
Is there really an "easy way"? Probably not, so don't be afraid to be harsh if you need to, I want the truth, not some sugar lie.
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i know what your going through it sucks but you have to stand up to him dont be afraid.tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that you feel like his using you tell him that you dont want to lose him but ,you just dont feel comfortable with the whole idea of making out and not in a relationship.its going to be hard but you have to its your body and your life so take care of yourself if he disagree with you and doesnt want to speak to you anymore well let it be just that because that will tell you if his worth your time or not. good luck(girl power)
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Thanks, needed the pep-talk answer..
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