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My name is Emma, and I'm a junior in high school. I may be young, but everyone comes to me for advice-it's my passion, and I am going to go to college for psychology. I've been through a lot in terms of emotion, and I want to help people understand what they're dealing with better.
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Gender: Female
Location: Albany,NY
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: October 13, 2008
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Last Update: October 15, 2008
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Well I am not straight and I know it.
I love girls, they are georgeous and ahhhh
But, I have the most amazing boyfriend!
I love him, I mean I couldn't live without him...and I know its for a companion and not just a friendshipppp!
Therefore, I think I am bi...
I mean seriouslyyy, I love boys, they attract me and get me excited, welll....girls do to!:D
The question is how do I come out to my boyfriend and my familyyyy...
I have a game with my friends who are girls where we grab each others butts and boobs, trying to make each other uncomfortableeee...
And I am a little bit weary because I don't want them to think I am copping a feel. I am NOT doing thattt...honestly, my friends aren't my type, I don't think they are attractive AT ALL. Ew.
But that doesn't matter, what should I do?
(oh by the way, my boyfriend is a very commited christian who thinks that homosexuality is wrong and disgustinggg)
tell your friends what you just told everyone here. If you really are not attracted to them, let them know-and how hard would it be to just not play that game anymore? that way they wouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable.
No one can tell you how to come out to your family-it's a personal choice..both to tell them and how you do it..but just do it in a neutral environment- I can't imagine them not being understanding and loving-they are your family..
In your boyfriend's case- to have a healthy relationship you have to be honest..and this is a big secret to keep. Now it is your choice whether or not to tell him- but it sounds like you want to come out. If he doesn't understand or thinks it's immoral because of his religious beliefs, there is nothing you can do about that. You guys might break up because of it-but if you do..think about it- how much of a loss is it? I know he's your boyfriend and you obviously care about him..but it's a choice between having a boyfriend who doesn't know the true you and may not accept it-and being yourself.
It all depends on what you want to be.
I hope this helped =]
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I am still considering losing him or not, I don't think that he is going to be understanding at firsttt...but idk yettt...Thanks a lot for the help! It really helpedddd :D
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