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im 18 years old, female
i've never had a boyfriend before and i'll ive done is madeout with two guys and that was about two years ago. everytime someone hears that i have never had one they're all shocked because everyone tells me im gorgeous (and i do think im pretty, not trying to be conceited at all) its just that i dont know whats wrong with me. maybe i'm too picky but all these guys try to get with me and i always just see them as a friend and never anything more. im scared to kiss a guy or anything because it's been so long and i just dont know. i like this boy right now but has a girlfriend. he tried "fingering" me and i really wanted him too, but i just couldn't let myself do it. i feel so awkward doing that kind of stuff. all my family and friends are always like why dont you ever have a boyfriend! and im just like i dont know. im so worried about school right now because i just started college and i usually dont go looking for one. im outgoing around people i know, but i wont approach i guy i think is hot when im by myself. what do you guys think, what should i do im starting to get really depressed about this... (link)
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Omg i am just like you and im in the same situation. I am also 18 and ive never had a committed relationship..im not that experienced either and it bothered me for awhile. But then i realized that I need to move at my pace..i dont need to feel pressured by other people to get a boyfriend just because ive never had one. People wonder about me all the time..im sure they prolly think im a lesbian just because ive never had one but im def not and truth is..im just not ready for that. So maybe we are a little slow w. when it comes to boys..who cares? When youre ready..youre ready and youll feel it. And it also depends on the guy you meet..once you find a guy that you really like and you have chemistry with..itll be different. Youll WANT to kiss him..you wont be afraid instead youll be excited. Give yourself time..you have all your life to worry ab boys..focus on you and your time will come when you least expect it. Hope i helped!
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