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Q: 17/f. I am "talking to"/dating this great guy. We're not official yet because we're getting to know each other better. Anyway, he is so freaking nice to me. We went on a date, and he picked me up, opened every door for me (car doors included), paid for everything, met my parents, and he even insisted on programming my home address into his GPS so I wouldn't have to sit there and tell him where to go (so we would have more time to actually talk). He's just such an outstanding guy... and I feel like he's doing all the giving and I'm doing all the taking. I want to show him that I'm as interested in him as he is in me. Any suggestions? Nothing sexual please.
Aw, that sounds like how I got together with my boyfriend.
I can give you some suggestions that I did.
For one, I flat out told him how much I care about him and how sweet he is. Then at the park I stole one of his shoes so he'd chase me and tackle me and then we'd lay down and cuddle. Afterwards, I told him that I only stole his shoe because I knew it'd get us closer. He bought me a rose so a few days later I picked him a bouquet and gave him flowers. I also made him a CD with songs that I thought well described how I felt about him. And I picked two stars and told him they were my favorite because they were close together just like he and I.

Those are just some things I did. However, chances are if this guy is as wonderful as you say he is, which I'm sure he is, then he's not worried about you doing the giving. He's happy just to see you smile and make you happy and make your day better. That's a gift enough to him. I know my boyfriend was just happy that I wanted to be friends with him, let alone be more than that. My main suggestion would just be to tell him how you feel about him and maybe try cute little things that'll get his attention but aren't too over the top.

I hope I helped a little.

Thank you so much! Great answer.

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