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I can't remember the last time I asked a question about a man. Anyway, my friend is in love with this dirtbag cop, and even though he dumped her cause of THE dumbest thing, she can't get over him. There's this really nice guy that likes her. He brings her flowers, and when she lost her sidekick lx, he didn't hesitate to buy her a new one. It's the first guy her mom actually likes, but If anything, my friend seems disgusted of him! He's cute, kind-hearted, a totally whipped boy, but even though she feels nothing for him, she has him as like her back up plan. I hate how she dates scum that hit her, and then she treats the nice ones like crap. It's a cycle, I know. I don't want her to break his heart. I wanna meet him, but she keeps subtly making up excuses for me not to. I know he likes her, and I have no problem in getting him to like me, I just need a way to get to him. He's the first guy I've actually gone after in a while, and I don't wanna let him get away, and I certainly don't want her to go out with him just to manipulate him. I don't even know what I'm asking, but I'd like some opinions. Thanks guys!

-Djzmaguy426

with what the other girl said, i dont think it should be offensive or hurtful to your friend at all. with the whole going after her guy thing, its not really HER guy? she doesnt lke him and shes only using him probably because he does nice things for her, also to help soften the pain of her asshole boyfriend and to maybe make that guy jealous. this guy seems like a really ncie guy and if shes not guna take him, theres no reason you shouldn't beable to meet him! the reason shes probably not wanting you to meet him is because she knows your interested and wants him to herself, but if she doesnt even really want to be with him, then she should let somebody else, like you! if you know his name or where hes from what not, you can maybe try to talk to other friends and find out about him, get his number/facebook whatever.. and if you cant do that, then maybe just talk to your friend. just be like "woww he seems like such a nice guy i cant believe you dont like him, you should let me meet him :)" or something along the lines of that.. and if shes like ughh no.. then shes just being a bitchh! :)

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(Rating: 5) Haha, that's hilarious. Like I told the other advicenator, I actually did go out with him and did not like him. At all. I'm sorry, but there's nice, and then there's p*ssy..and now my friend claims she likes him all of a sudden. Good riddens! And thanks =].
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