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" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

I've had my share of ups-and-downs (don't we all) and I'm more than willing enough to help those that ask.

In fair warning: I won't give answers that are "gusshied with sprinkles on top" (or whatever things that that line follows). I will be blunt if the situation calls for it...either you take the honest words or brush it off and go search for a lie~ all in all, it's entirely your choice.
Advice is simply there for people to brood and consider over, not a forceful act.

So feel free to ask me whatever you wish to be answered and the advice shall slide over these keyboards~ ^-^


"If it's free, it's advice; if you pay for it, it's counseling;
if you can use either one, it's a miracle."
-Jack Adams-

"If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it,
If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
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Okay, so I'm not saying I hate my best friend "Nora?" It's just that she can be really mean to me and to our other friends.

Ex.) On this one site were I posted a story she also did and my story was more successful than hers and she wrote a bad comment about me in my guestbook ,but it was annomonsye[sp?] well i found it was her because her IP addresses matched. Well I was upset about this ,but I got over it.

Ex.) She constantly says she "hates" me and she knows that upsets me. Even thought she might or might not mean it.

Ex.) She constatly offendes me.

Ex.) We both had this friend named "Laura" but one day "Nora" decided to not like and hate "Laura" so she turned on "Laura" while I didn't .

Ex.) She talks about our friend "Michelle" behind her back and tells me how much she hates "Michelle" while I sit there an listen.

Ex.)She tells me she'll never like my type of music/style and then like it. Hiprocritic[sp?] Which strangly makes me mad.

And we are slowely drifting away. I don't know if I should go with the flow considering she's been mean. Or try to remain bestfriends with her [and try to get over all this]

So please tell me what you think of the situation. Sorry it's alot and that it whatever else I could be sorry for.

Thanks in advance. :)

I'm also in the same exact situation that you're facing now and I understand the feeling you get everytime a friend who you trusted most of your life, is treating you in a cruel way as if friendship doesn't mean a thing to her anymore. Anyway, all I can say is that it's best to let yourself and your friend drift off. You don't have to constantly feel yourself growing in pain everytime your friend is continuously hurting your feelings. Take a stand and let her know what you really think of her personality and how's she has been treating your friendship. And if she just brushes it off, don't feel any regrets and move on.

Maybe also in a way, you both needs some space from each other, I'm sure she'll understand that even if she's trying to hide it. There's always some place in time of your life where you just have to say goodbye to old friends and say hello to new ones~

I hope I was of some help and good luck! =3

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! So much! : )

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