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me and my guy have been in a serious(long distance) relationship for two years now.. we had been in alot of fights but we always made up because we love eachother alot.. recently we came across a fight.. u see in both our FB(facebook) accounts we had put on our relationship status as "in a relationship".but recentlt my guy asked me permisiion to chnage his profile status to single becuse he had to add a married cousin sis of his whose a critic on love affairs.i understood him(bcos his cousin whose much older than him loves him like her son)... so i said ok to it and he asked me to open another new profile for him and put the staus on rwelationship.. i did as he told.. and increased his privacy settings so that his cousin sis wont find him on FB.i put on his profile info from his original profile and added a pic.. and i told him about it, he said to remove all personal info from his profile.. and i said "its ok forget about opening a profile for me then"..
and i was very hurt.. didnt talk with him properly for the whole day..and i didnt give him the reason for it.. the next day i spoke he was angry with me... anyway it went on like that and i ended up telling him "i hate you, why are you always getting angry with me, i didnt even complain about that profile but i was hurt about it".. and now he's angry with me for 2 whiole days.. i called him many times but he sounds distant.. i begged him to forgive me but he says i have crossed his limits..
i love him to death.. and i didnt mean what i said when i said i hated him :'(... i told him that, sent him an -card.. cried, begged himk back... i know he got very hurt over what i said.. bcos he has never done like this to me before. what shuld i do... i miss him so much.. how do i win him back again.. please help me out
please dont give me lectures on what i dd was wrong.. i accept that.. and i deeply regret it and i will never do anything like that again.. but what should i do now to get him back???

I dont think you have done anything wrong .. if anything i think he is in the wrong for wanting to change his profile in the first place. I understand about his cousin but he should have just delt with it, even if that ment his cousin lecturing him.
As to getting him back, i think if u keep begging him it will only annoy him and not really make him want to talk to you. Whereas if you leave him for a while and let him calm down, then he should start speaking to you again because he will miss talking to you. Hope you two sort everything out x

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