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Q: ok dont think im a slut cause im pretty far from it....but i do kinda feel like one cause i love my friends boyfriend and he has told me that if i really want him all i have to do is tell him and he would leave her for me. i think that is so mean to do though. i could never bring myself to do that to her. i love her as close as a sister and i have told her how i feel about him and showed her some of the txt messages that he sent me so she knows about it and she has talked to him about it and he denied that he would leave her. but we are getting pretty close and im scared to hurt her. another thing is that when i confessed to her she told me that she wasnt to worried that she trusted me and would never believe i would hurt her like that but its driving me insane i love him i really cant help it but i dont know what to do.........HELP

i think you should take some time & think who's more important?
1st of all if the guy is telling you he'd leave her 4 you but denying it 2 her face then i dont think he would or wants 2 loose her. If that was the case he wouldent have lied & said it was true 2 beggin with.
& your friend ;if shes a real friend & she knows your happiness is next to him & his is next to you then no matter how much it hurts her she would have 2 let him go.
but it pretty much comes down to you because you have 2 pick between whats more important...your friendship with this girl thats like a sister to you or the guy that you say you love. think wisely because eigther way one is to loose.

If i was you i would let the guy go & move on 2 someone whos free or at least someone whos not with one of your friends. I mean i know it would hurt YOU real bad but it sounds to me like hes fake his word isint anything.

its up to you tho goodluck

Rating: 5

thanks so much i will definetly try to move on

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