I'm Kathryn but most call me KD. I'm a 16 year old sophomore. I'm rare to come by seeing that I try to solve everything I can for others before myself. I am very honest and I don't lie to make anything seem not as bad as it honestly is. I give suggestions that I myself would do if it were in my case.
I may ask for help or someone's opinion on a personal matter but don't feel bad if I do more for you than you do for me. I don't let people in. My words should tell you exactly what kind of person I am without a picture to second guess.
I'm the type of person who will fall so someone else can stand. I won't stop helping people until the day I die because I know what it is like to be in need of something and no one is there for you.
Don't ever be afraid to send me a message even if it isn't serious. There is only one kid of help to me. The kind that is given at all.
If you can't find me, I'll be walking in the door when the rest of the world walks out.
If you have a very serious matter that you wish to contact me about URGENTLY, then you may use my AIM screen name to reach me or my MySpace. I appreciate feedback to know if my advice helped at all.
Thank you,
-KD
Gender: Female
Location: South Lyon, MI
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 15
AIM: HeartedASHollow
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okay, where to start... my best friend won't talk to me because she goes to this band thing, and when she was there, she kinda snogged this guy, but she has a nearly boyfriend here (band was away) but then when her nearly boyfriend tricked me into telling him that she went woth this other guy. so i told my best friend that i had accidently told her nearly boyfriend she freaked and hasnt spoken to me since... anyway my question is, how do i approach her? (link)
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Well in that case, maybe she just didn't want to admit what she had done was wrong. But honestly, if you are a true and caring person, what you did was right. Tricked or not.
You have to see it from the boyfriend's perspective. Imagine what it would have been like if he didn't know his girlfriend, someone he trusted a lot with, was cheating on him. Imagine if it was you. How would you feel if you didn't know and no one wanted to tell you because they thought you weren't worth the truth. Good or bad.
As far as talking to her goes, Just be nice to her. If you have a class together, just get her a paper or something like that. Give her a pencil when she mentions to someone that she doesn't have one.
If she doesn't respect that, then she really is self absorbed. Only people that would cheat honestly are because there is no reason to cheat because when you're not happy, you break it off with the person anyway. But when you DO cheat, you're not thinking about how the other person feels, at all, none whatsoever.
I hope you understand this
-KD/f/15
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