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okay. so me and my boyfriend went out for a lil over a year and a half. i am madly in love with him, but he just kept lieing to me, so i broke up w/ him. not even 3 weeks after he already has another girl. he tells me that hes over me, but that he still loves me. last night he told me that he was falling for me again. and i was gonna take him back. but then he decided that he was too worried about wat his current gf's friends would do. i love him so much. and im trying to just let go and move on. but its sooo hard. and its killing me seeing him w/ her. =/.
any advice? i know i deserve better. but maybe i dont want better. i just want him. gah. i hate my life. =/. (link)
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You don't hate your life. You hate a single thing that isn't going right in your life at the moment. Your ex boyfriend doesn't know what he wants. You can't have two different cakes and eat them both. Sorry, it just doesn't work. You need to let him go and sure it'll suck and hurt like hell but in the long run you'll be stronger and better for it. You'll be wiser.
He's not being fair to you or his current squeeze of the moment and he'll hurt her the way he hurt you. It's a cycle that only he can break. Sometimes in life we don't always get what we want and we can't fix everyone or mold them into what we want them to be. So naturally, we hold on even tighter when we should be letting go.
Give it time. Let him go. Tell him to let you go. Your heart will feel heavy at first, believe me it's not easy. But I guess life's got alot of tests for us - and hoops for us to jump through. Heartbreak is one of them. You'll survive. We always do. :)
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