I'm Kathryn but most call me KD. I'm a 16 year old sophomore. I'm rare to come by seeing that I try to solve everything I can for others before myself. I am very honest and I don't lie to make anything seem not as bad as it honestly is. I give suggestions that I myself would do if it were in my case.
I may ask for help or someone's opinion on a personal matter but don't feel bad if I do more for you than you do for me. I don't let people in. My words should tell you exactly what kind of person I am without a picture to second guess.
I'm the type of person who will fall so someone else can stand. I won't stop helping people until the day I die because I know what it is like to be in need of something and no one is there for you.
Don't ever be afraid to send me a message even if it isn't serious. There is only one kid of help to me. The kind that is given at all.
If you can't find me, I'll be walking in the door when the rest of the world walks out.
If you have a very serious matter that you wish to contact me about URGENTLY, then you may use my AIM screen name to reach me or my MySpace. I appreciate feedback to know if my advice helped at all.
Thank you,
-KD
Gender: Female
Location: South Lyon, MI
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 15
AIM: HeartedASHollow
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Hi, I'm 16/m I just started at a new school. There is a girl in my Hist. Class that is insanely gorgeous. Like, you don't even know. Crazy gorgeous. Anyway, I don't really know her yet. I'd like to get to know her though. How can I break the ice? And don't tell me to just go up to her and tell her I like her. I know girls like confidence, but you have to at least know them A LITTLE before you start telling them that. So... help? (link)
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Okay one, never just go up to a girl you don't know and confess how you feel. It gets awkward because she thinks you've been stalking her and it will be just...odd...and to avoid the silence I would do the following to build up to that point where it would be normal ^.^
Ask her for help with homework or ask questions you can ask anyone that has to do with your class like "Do you remember when the test is? or when the homework is due?" it will be more natural.
Maybe when you start talking to her in a casual manner such as working together in a group for class but bringing up things you like. Don't be disgusting. Only a few girls love talking about zombies.
And then when it comes off like that you build trust as well. So she would also know that in the future if one of you needed help, it would be normal to work on it together and it wouldn't be so sudden and out of the ordinary.
That is very rare when finding someone you're interested in. To be able to know that you can spend time together but help each other become more successful in a not-as-high area.
Hope this helps!
-KD/f/15
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Thanks, that was really helpful, and actually really well written.
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