ok so im 15 (gonna be 16) female me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months sept.12th he purposed to me basically, so were technically engaged. well he is really shy.he started holding my hand, and hugging me, and just recently like hmmm... last week he kissed me for the 1st time. he doesnt want to rush anything but finally he kissed me but it was just a peck, but i no it will be more later, it will just take time, well my question is how can i get him to be less shy, and talk more, and hold me and stuff by feeling more comfortable around me. please help me, i really wish he can be more comfortable with me, and how can i control my jealousy, i have this huge jealousy problem, i dont even trust him round my friends, only 1. =/ please help me, im even jealous of his girl cousin. i feel horrible
ok first of all, if he's still shy around you, then you two really dont know eachother quite yet.
maybe you should consider waiting to be engaged/married because if you rush into it, what if you come to realize that he is not the one?
not only that, but if your having jeaousy issues then your clearly not ready!!! but if you want him to loosen up, try talking to him more. that should work...i mean come on its only been four months...right??
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thankyou so much, im almost positive i am ready for my future with him, its just im a really jealous person, not just stuff that has to do with him, it can be with my friends or anything, im just really insecure and i dont know how to be more confident =/
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