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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
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I have been with my man for over10 yrs and I caught him kissing another man. Now he flat out says it never happened and Im crazy for it. I know what I saw. I look back now and there are tell,tell signs all along,that srapping Man had very close friends but that close!Now I have gone beserk, tried to run him over. Now Im got legal problems.How do I put him out of my mind and stop this insane obsession to make him just tell me??
How old are you?
How old is he?
Do you want to stay with him?
Do you want to dump him?
You left out some important details, but i'll try to answer as best as i can.
First of all, just flat out say this, I saw you, don't lie, I know what I saw. Be like, you need to tell me. How long has this been going on? Why didn't you tell me?
He may not want to tell you becuase, well call me crazy, BUT YOU TRIED TO RUN HIM OVERR!
Just cool it, be like screw this guy, his an a$$. Go find someone that you diserve. Stop assosiating yourself with him. Don't put your self in the possition where you have to be at the same place, at the same time with him. He might be bi-sexual. Thats fine, but not while your in a relationship.
Try to talk it out calmly. You can't over react and freak out, say it in a nice, calm voice, maybe that will get it through his head.
Move on though, he doesn't diserve you and you can have soooooo much better.
hope i helped and if you need anymore help just drop it in my inbox
-E
(Rating: 3) Im 46 and hes 44 and this happened in november of 2007 and I did try the calm approach and I did leave him.I had had enough 2months later of the harrassment,phone calls and lies I snapped and I cant believe I lowered myself to that level.Im not naive in anyway. Ive was married for 14yrs before him and I have grown children now. I met him when I was 34 and wasnt looking for another relationship And he actually fooled me for ten yrs.I dont evan know who he really is now and probably never did and maybe thats why Im so mad now. Hes still out there but Ive managed to vanish totally for 6 months now but I still cant forget. No Ill never go back, I just need to learn how to go forward thanks for your advice and I wish I would have told you how old I was first. see old people need help sometimes and no matter how old we get we can still be fooled evan after learning not to trust the first time EXCEPT that was afirst for me:)