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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
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Hi! Ok so I'm 19 and early in the summer joined a gym. Im already skinny but I really wanted to tone up. So me and my guy friend got a personal trainer. After 3 weeks together I sent him a text thanking him for working with me. He's 24 and gorgeous by the way. After that day he would always text me, and talk to me at the gym flirtaciously. I didn't think anything of it because I thought its his job to be nice, but one day he told me how he thought I was hot. Or that he wants to get to know me. After a month every trainer knew my name and saw how my trainer acted towards me. Last thursday he texts me saying how sexy I am and stuff. And I guess I got the txt really delayed because I texted him back at 11:15pm. On Friday morning I get a call from an unknown number- It's my trainer's girlfriend!!! Mind you, I had no idea he had a girlfriend, and if he did I wouldn't be talking to him. So we talk and she as well as I appreciated knowing whats going on. Yesterday I see my trainer and he acts like nothing happened and yells "Hey Marlene!" Today I went to pilates and 2 other trainers are at the desk and stare me down and start smiling. Im a little self-conscious of whats going on. Are they making fun of me because they knew he already had a girlfriend? Or whats going on? I'm open to all opinions.
Well first off, don't feel self-conscious. If I'm understanding correctly it didn't get farther than texting, so you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Besides, you didn't know he had a girlfriend. I don't think that the people at the gym were making fun of you inparticular. I am going to be brutally honest for a sec and say that I doubt you are the first girl he's done this to. With that, they may have been looking at you thinking "there's another victim". I'm not trying to be rude, so please don't take it that way. I wouldn't worry about this guy. Just keep it strictly gym. Don't text him and don't respond to his texts. You sound like one of those girls I hated lol. I don't mean really hated, but was jealous of! =P I'm sure you have several choices as far as guys go. If you feel extremely uncomfortable, you can always work with a different trainer. But my advice to you is continue your membership. Let him do his job and you do what you are there for...nothing more! I hope I helped and I hope that things go well for you.
Good luck girlie!
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Hey thanks for your advice! I really appreciate it and feel you're absolutely right!
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