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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!

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So it seems like latley, instead of worrying about school ( which i am.) I'm worrying about my Ex-BFF.

We drifted apart this summer.
Like; No talking at ALL- which i really dont know what happened..

Maggie (exbff) and me alllways hung out. We were such good friends. Lets say we werrre attached by the shoulders.

But, this summer; I kind of got fed up with her. How much she changed. I can't stand it, I meen I see her on myspace and I hear about her from my other bestfriend ( who hangs out with maggie more then I do. ALOT MORE) and I get ... annoyed? In a way I want to be still friends with her, but then I see her and I'm like " UGH!" . I dont know it's so confusing! And now that school is going to start, I really dont know what to do. I'm mad because we drifted apart, and I'm mad at her for that. I meen she goes across the street to my other friends house, and never comes and sees what I'm up to?


okay so, yeah I dont know exactly what I'm feeling- that's where the confusing part comes in.

But I need help with how to deal with it in school. How much shes changed with her new "bff" and how to show her that I've been GREAT without her, instead of talking about the stupid Old times. you know what I meen? even though I have been great.

But Not seeing her this summer took a whole load off; lets just say I was STRESS FREE! ahha.
So yeah- things do happen for a reason; I became much better friends with my other friends who I hang out with mostly everyday..

Now to deal with it in school 24/7; help?

As you get older, you're definitely going to find out that people change and they're not what they seem.. and it's tough especially when it's your BFF. It'll probably be awkward in school for awhile, but you're going to have to learn to deal with it. No one is forcing you to be best friends with her again, you don't even have to like her, but be kind to her. Keep doing what you're doing now. Make plans with alll your other friends and keep busy! and definitely try your hardest to make new friends this year, because you never know, you may just find your next BFF!

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much :)
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