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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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I just wanted to know if it was weird to constantly be changing my mind on crushes. I mean, I believe I've liked 6 different guys in the past month! =\
I guess maybe I'm just a flighty person, but it just seems weird to me. I used to have really obsessive crushes that would last ages but now there are specific reasons for each new guy I like. It's almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself.I don't know if this makes any sense, but does anyone know what I can do to fix this problem? Thank you!
First off, you said "Its almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself" you couldn't be making more since. Have you ever heard someone refer to another as their "better half" or "the one who completes them". That's basically what these things are. Once you find qualities in a person that you lack, you use them to complete yourself.
Sometimes it's hard to answer a question with out asking some of my own. How old are you? Just so I kinda know where you stand. Age can often determine the way a person reacts to and in relationships.
It may be that you are a "flighty person" as you say, or it could be that there are just a certain group of qualities that you are looking for, and you just haven't found someone that hold's all those qualilties. Try not to be too picky when it comes to relationships. Also, maybe you should take a break and be single for a while. Don't jump on the opportunity to be with someone new right away. Hang out and get to know other people and above all, get to know yourself. It's amazing what you find out about yourself just taking some time aside for you. I hope that I helped you a little bit, please let me know how things ago and if you EVER need anything else.
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Thank you. To answer your question I am 15 years old. And actually I haven't had a boyfriend since February, but since then I have just been bombarded with constant crushes. Maybe it's just the fact that I am 15, but I am trying harder to let everyone, including myself, see who the real me is, so that when some guy does come around we can have a good relationship. I hope I am making some sense here.
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