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i asked this question already but i couldn't see the answers for some reason so here it is:


i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit, and hes friends with everyone who does. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. i just wanna see if he really does have feelings for me and stays with me...which he has before at a non-alcoholic beverage party. oh and like everyones gonna be drunk, so i dont want him to get the wrong impression of me thinking im like a big party pooper, i wanna be fun, cause i am fun =)


thank youu!

First of all, you definitely wouldn't be a "party pooper" if you didn't get drunk. There's nothing wrong with being sober at a party, and it's good to have someone responsible and sober around, just in case anything bad goes down. Also, remember that you'd rather someone be genuine, right? Imagine if ya'll ended up doing something on a physical level together. Would you rather question of that was the alchohol or him? Think about how he's feel in that case, too.

It'd be nice to see if he sticks with you if you got "tipsy". But it'd be even nicer to see that he sticks with you again, even if you're not drinking. Plus, "tipsy" can get out of hand VERY quickly.

Guys don't really like girls who act stupid/defenseless/like they're trying to impress them, so I don't see why a guy would want a girl to be tipsy around them, unless they just want in their pants or something.

Overall, I'd REALLY recommend that you stay sober, or at least don't try to act tipsy or something you otherwise would'nt. Let things go smoothly sober, or however they're meant to go. You can be tons of fun without booze or acting like you can't handle booze, lol.

He'll probably be really impressed if you can handle your alcohol, or even not drinking!

XOXO
KAT.

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