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I don't judge. I've seen a lot, and the things I haven't, I'm always open to listening to. I want to make a difference.

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why is it that when guys sleep around, most people think its ok, but when a girls sleep around, people think theyre hoes? to me it just not fair!

It's not really fair -- But this is a really common stereotype of girls, rather than guys now. Personally, I can think of a few reasons why people would be led to believe this, though some of them even apply to guys. I guess that's overlooked. >.<

-Girls, espeically in high schools can show the results better. Aka -- Two people hook up, and the girl gets pregnant. It's much more obvious and extreme than just a guy sleeping with someone.

-Girls are known as the ones who are supposed to be all sweet and subjective sometimes, while guys are masculant and dominant. Girls sleeping around would kind of seem defiant, I guess? I don't know, really.. Haha.

-It probably dosen't really count now, but in the Reniseance, guys judged girls on their purity. If they weren't virgins when they were married, that was a HUGEE no-no. And it's much more obvious for the girl. You can't tell with a guy. Therefore, it was assumed only the girls could only be considered whores.

-Girls talk a lot more than guys. More people know when they sleep around.

-It's a much bigger deal for girls than guys to sleep around. The consequences are bigger for girls in a way, so people kind of see that, I guess.

Overall, it ISN'T fair. It's stereotypical, and sexist in a way.

XOXO
KAT.

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(Rating: 5) thx so much
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