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okay, so for most of the summer me & this kid have been hanging out a lot w. mutual friends and every time he alwayss flirts with me hardcore, cuddles with me, puts his arm around me and acts like he likes me. he's a flirty person but still..it felt like more because of how much chemistry we had. even our friends say so and think we look soo cute toghether..then last night we hung out and it was totally different. he was nice to everyone BUT me &acted like he hated me! he even flirted with my friend right in fronttt of me..& avoided me like i was a disease or something! :[ i don't understand how it could go from one extreme to the next. except that a lot of people found out i like him..and i think maybe someone told him..now i have no idea what to do..its so awkward but we dont know eachother well enough for me to talk to him about it..thatd just be weird. what do i do? i have to keep hanging out with him because hes still friends with my friends and whatnot. i just hate that its awkward now. i tried to be nice to him, but he acted creeped out and wouldnt even make eye contact with me. im sooo confused at what to do here.
guys can be very mysterious creatures. at times, trying to figure out a rubix cube could even be easier than trying to figure out a guy, especially when you're without even having the liberty of talking to him about his oppinion of the sittuation.
however, being the position your in my suggestion for you is to take a step back and realize what your saying. you admitted to the fact that you dont know the boy well enough to talk about things such as this so you to clearly aren't that close. put yourself in his place, if you started hearing from all your friends that a girl you didnt know all too well randomly liked you when maybe this is a girl you just had a good time flirting with you would probally either 1, be a little creeped out that a few hangouts that you thought were just a good time turned into a girl with a crush on you running and telling all her friends or 2, you might be thinking all your flirting may have led her on a bit so you back off so you are no longer giving her the wrong idea exspecially if you didnt feel the same way.
although, like i said, guys can be very difficult to figure out. i may be completely wrong with both of those accusations and it could simply just be that this boy did hear that you liked him and he also had feelings for you too, so he gets nervous and backs off a bit to make you jealous. if this is the case though, dont worry because it is only a matter of time that he will be back your way so for the mean time just take it easy and your best bet is to just play it off as if you dont care, it will aggervate him more than anything and speed up the process.
so my advice for you is to not let this eat you up. it sounds as if this is just another case of confusing boys and you dont seem to have done anything wrong. i think your just going to have to give this time and don't dwell on it. whatevers meant to happen will happen and with however this turns out i wish you the best of luck. i hope this helped! goodluck
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you had the best advice by far! you were so right, thank youuuu!
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