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Is it wrong to want my boyfriend to lose his baseball tournament (best in the province tournament) because i want him to come to the beach with me? Mind you its been a while since we've hung out. But baseball is his passion, lol.

Haha, if you just mean kind of secretly wishing that they'd lose, it's something we all do, really. You're not doing it to be malicious, you just hope things work out so that you can see each other. As long as you're not pressuring him to make a choice or something, it's fine. No need to feel guilty, because you just want to spend some time with him.

Like you said, baseball is his passion, so make sure you don't make him feel guilty or anything about going, obviously. Maybe you could go to his game and hang out afterwards if the beach was an option/not mandatory? Just remember that it's a good opportunity for him to be going to the tournament, and I'm sure he'd love to spend time with you if he could.

For now, just cross your fingers (;

XOXO
KAT.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, that was great advice:) exactly what i was looking for
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