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I don't judge. I've seen a lot, and the things I haven't, I'm always open to listening to. I want to make a difference.

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okay im in 10th grade and im Really into fashion. i shop mostly at hollister abercrombie h&m bebe and forever 21..i mix and match things but it seems like whenever i dress up and look nice all the girls get really b*tchy and say mean things (and i don't look slutty in the things i wear either) so i just wear jeans and a regualar shirt like from a&f to school just so they'll have nothing to say about it. but when i wear that i feel like everyone else...what should i do?

It's said so much, but these girls saying these things could just be saying them because they're jealous. I'd say not to listen. If they're not exactly being productive or helping you out at all/just making you feel bad, why bother listening to what they have to say? You're your own person, and if you know that you look good and you don't look slutty or anything, feel free and confident to wear what you want!
Honestly it sounds like they're looking for conformity. You look different, they don't know how to respond nicely and say that you look good, so they're responding negatively.
Really, don't worry about them. As long as there's not a ton of cleavage or anything, it should be fine. If you really have to, ask a friend for an honest opinion on whether or not your shirt or outfit looks inappropriate.

Good luck, and don't change yourself for anyone else!

XOXO
KAT.

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