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Hi, I'm Kimberly [but you can call my Kimmy] I'm 16 years old and I'm from Texas. I'm a junior at Stephen F. Austin High School. Feel free to ask me any kind of question at anytime. I love helping people in anyway I can. My goal is to at least help one person a day. And please send feedback, I like to know if I'm doing a good job. =]

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Ok. Well, I have a friend....let’s just call her "D". Ok, this is a really long story, so hold onto your hats!
Anyway, so D and me have been friends since the 6th grade. I had moved from my hometown in the fourth grade and had been friend less. Then middle school came around, and I had always sat alone at lunch and stuff like that. Then she randomly talked to me one day, and we had been friends since. Well, I am now going into 9th grade, and I think I’m going to go crazy! Lemme explain. 6th grade was a total blast! She introduced me to all my best friends I have today. We have our own little group thing going on, (except we are considered the "Weird people group". But, that’s ok, since we are having fun. But, that all changed in 7th grade. Suddenly, we were all changing, and all the drama started. At least 1 new fight a week! It got a little better in 8th grade. But it seems like D is almost always the cause of it! She’s suddenly turning "Emo" now, and when there’s a party or something, she and another Emo friend of mine "T" bring it down and sit and sulk. She then started cutting herself, and then eventually got me into cussing. (I’m a major Christian FYI) I got outta that habit though. She constantly annoys the CRAP outta me! She always starts drama, and complains a ton, she always says she'll call me back but claims to "forget" to. And she always gossips, tells other peoples secrets to me! So, I can't really trust her all that much, since she might go and tell mine. She hasn’t been fitting into our group that much lately. No one really seems to like her anymore. She hurts my feelings a lot too. Anyways, my point is, she’s annoying, but I don’t know what to do. If I get mad at her, she doesn’t do anything, and I have to end up apologizing for getting mad at her, when it was her fault. It hurts, cuz she doesn’t care. I did a pro-con list about if I should be her friend or not. The results were: 24 con, 4 pro. What should I do?!

It seems like you guys just grew apart. If she really wanted to still be your friend, she wouldn't get you into bad habits that she knows you don't like. You should just spend some time with friends that you feel closer to. Me and some of my old friends drifted far apart and now I can't even believe we were ever friends. People change. Hopefully I helped. =]

Love,
Kimmy.

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(Rating: 5) You did help! Thanks! And, sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I was grounded, And now, well... Im not! xD
Anyways, thank you very much.
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