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I am still in love with my ex. When I think about him I get all hot and bothered. I want to let the thoughts of him go but its been hard. It has now been a year since we've been together. I need help to shake him. What should I do? (link)
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Hun, I know exactly how I feel. About a year ago, my ex broke up with me too! It hurt for a really long time, and even after other relationships, I would find myself still thinking about him. I think what you really need is closure. You can talk to him about your relationship if that is what you feel you need. Or, you can talk to your friends. They know how you are feeling too.
To get my ex from my mind, I wrote notes. I dont think I ever gave him any, but it helped to get all my thoughts out on paper.
I promise you, that one day you will meet someone who will love you forever, and you will love him so much more than you can even comprehend right now! Someone as faithful and caring as you, deserves someone the same in return. You can get over this hun!
I totally recomend romance movies. They made me feel so much better :D that is pretty dorky of me, but it helps to see those amazing guys in the movies that these wonderful women like you get to fall in love with! Also, try going out to parties and meeting new people. You can even treat these a little like a game. The more relationships you develop, the more fun you will have :D
Being single and in love is hard. You can feel lonely and scared, but you also have a great oppertunity to grow. You will feel so much better in time. If you are patient, you will be rewarded.
A year ago, I never thought I would get over my ex, but for the first time,I am so in love, and so happy. I know you can be too!
I would love to hear updates! You sound so sweet, and I know you will meet your match eventually!
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I so appreciate your suggestions and I am working at it. I just feel like no matter who else I date or see a song comes on and I think of him. Our song is the worst. I do miss him. The reason for our breakup is both of our faults. I found that he was having these "conversations" as he calls it with other females. Not good at all. He's really a good guy. I know myself and instead of trying to fix it, I gave up and did my own thing out of hurt and anger, not good. So we parted. We talked for a while after, but I couldn't seem to push what was done from my mind. I let it rule my emotions and in the end I left him. He still tries to get me to see him but I worry. I do miss him and I just saw him 20 minutes ago at the local store (7/25/08 @ 2pm). I know with time I will totally get over him but in the meantime, what a ride this has been.
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