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Call me scooter. No, it isn't my real name, but I like the idea of having a secret name. Most of the people who have professional advice columns don't use their real names, so I don't see why I should either. I want to give the best advice possible, and I figure that the first way of becoming professional is to act professional. That isn't to say that I plan on growing up to be an advice columnist. Actually, I want to be a psychologist. But, this is as close as I'm going to get to that right about now. I'm also a very good writer, so I figure writing an advice column is a good way of getting my ideas out there. Please feel free to ask me any questions you like.

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usually i can't keep a relationship because i get bored with boys i date within the first two weeks and i dump them.
this time everything feels different. i've never felt this way about anyone before. the feelings seem to be mutual. he can't get enough of me and visa versa. I'm only around three of four days a week but we spend every possible second together when i am around. our kisses are perfect, our hnds fit perfectlty, and we have so much in common. I feel safe and needed when i'm i his arms.

am i in love or is it just the temperary fuzzy feeling that fades? should i try to keep a level head and not get too wrapped up in it, or is it worth it?

I learned the components of love in my psychology class. There are also many different kinds of love.

DEFINITIONS.

Passion: Romantic feelings and sexual attraction.

Intamecy: Feelings of closeness as well as really knowing another person.

Commitment: Planning to be with another person forever and making this plan known to that person.

KINDS OF LOVE:

A classic "crush": passion

Deep liking: intamecy

Empty love: commitment

Romantic love: passion+intamecy

Friendship love: intamecy+commitment

Mindless love: commitment+passion

True love: passion+intamecy+commitment


That's straight out of my psyc textbook. Hope I helped, and let me know what type of love it is! =)






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(Rating: 5) thankyou so so so much!
you really helped me put things in perspective
i think right now it's romantic loved, we haven't really discussed the future in great detail we've just mentioned b eing together for a long time . thanks again!!


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