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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
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Location: Ohio
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so, i'm a lifeguard at the local pool/waterpark. it's outdoor, so it's a popular place during the summer, and of course it's full of beautiful girls in bikinis.
so, recently i've had a lot of these girls start trying to talk to me. they usually are just like "heyyyy. what's your name?" and such. . . it's kinda nice to get the attention.
however, i always get way too nervous about it and just reply and keep walking. i'm always too afraid that i'll embarrass myself or something. i don't really know what it is, but i'm afraid to go up and start a conversation with these beautiful girls. . . i don't know what it is.
how can i work up the courage to talk to them?
thanks in advance
Laugh Out Loud is right. The biggest thing is to stay calm. A lot of guys 'overthink' the approaching girls scenario. Remember you just want to start up a conversation, not marry them. Like 'LOL' said, ask about the waterpark (or pool) that you work. Even joke with them..chicks love that (well the ones I know lol). For instance..if it's someone that you see there often maybe say something like "They should start paying you, you're here more than I am." It's just something to lighten the mood a bit. You wouldn't believe after the initial 'start' of a conversation how easy it is to continue it. Starting is the hardest part. Good luck and I hope I've helped out a little.
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thanks!
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