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This past week I went to a camp and my ex-bf was there also. And over the course of the week I realized that I still liked him. He had already told me about 3 weeks ago that he wanted to get back together with me, but I turned him down because I was still upset with him for dumping me in the first place.
Anyways, now I've told him how I feel and we've decided to get back together. But tonight he was texting me and talking about starting back right where we left off, and suggesting sex too. I told him right then he was moving too fast, but he pulled the whole "you do love me don't you?" to which i said, "i did once until you broke my heart. I'm not just giving it back to you so you can do what you want with it. If you don't want a serious relationship and you just want to mess around then I don't want anything to do with you anymore."
After awhile he texted back saying "I do want a serious relationship. I was just messin' with you. That was just once." Would you say that he truly meant that or just said it cuz he was scared I would leave?
Also, what are some ways we can help to make our relationship exciting but not always so sexual? I want this to work out because I really like him but I want to make sure it is a healthy relationship.
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Maybe this boy was serious, but realized when you freaked a little bit that he really wanted to have a relationship with you but played it off like he's kidding. Just make sure he knows what you want and don't want to do just yet, things will be just fine.
And to have a fun relationship, it doesn't have to be sexual. Group dates, as well as single dates are great ways to spend time together. Do things that you've never tried before. You could go rock climbing, or have a picnic. There's really no limit to the kinds of things out there to do right now so you should have no trouble finding something exciting to do that isn't necessarily sexual.
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