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Member Since: July 11, 2008
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Last Update: July 11, 2008
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17/f

I really like this boy. Hes like everything i ever wanted but I feel like he is too hard to sort or get him I suppose. I dont even talk to him. :S
Its just too hard and I can't do it and I think he is too good for me anyway.
Anyway one of his friends who is fun and really nice is chasing me. I have only just started thinking about him more often. Like wondering what it would liek to be with him. I only started thinking like this after I found out he liked me. Yet without a doubt I would love to be with the other boy so much more.

I don't think I have a chance with the first boy I really like and I've got no confidence at all around him, yet around his friend I am confident and he likes me.
So is it better to keep loving the first boy or to give it a chance with his friend, although I might not be as happy and I would still be in love with the other boy

Please help me, I'm confused.
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Dear confused,
Your main problem is thinking you are not good e-nuff for the first boy. You lack self esteem. Who knows you may be too good for him. Usally when the boy is hard to get us girls for some reason want him more! I would try and get to know the second boy but only if you are really interested in him (you don't want him to feel the way you do about the first boy) That wouldn't be nice.
take your time and get to know him who knows he may be great for you! Good Luck! Let me know how it works out

Gidgetgirl


Rating: 5
I asked my friend who goes to the same school as me and she said the opposite of what everyone else is saying. She thinks I could have fun but if I actually want to feel something then keep chasing the boy I really like.

Agh I'm so confused now.




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