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Hi, I call myself Ignatz after Dan Herriman's character in the old "Krazy Kat" comic strip. I'm 44, father of 3, husband to one, crazy about music and books and food and movies and history and martial arts. I've had some wild and crazy times in my life, and I figure I might as well put in some of my perspective.

I promise not to talk down to anyone or make fun,and I promise not to BS anyone. If you're old enough to ask a frank question, you're old enough to get a frank answer. Oh, and if you ask me a question directly, please be patient. I'll get back to you as soon as I can. My life's a bit hectic. :-)
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Two Terrible Two questions...

Can you explain what the terrible twos are, exactly?
My toddler is not two, yet his behavior makes me wonder if this is what the terrible twos is.

And if it he is experiencing the terrible twos at not yet a year and a half old, do I seriously have this to look forward to for another year?
He's a very sweet boy, but my word, does he have his moments...

Please... Share your experiences and your advice.
I just don't know what to do some days. (link)
What Maggy said. Really. Every kid is different, and every kid will move into that 'pushing the boundaries' phase at a different time. Part of the problem is communication; your son may be frustrated that he can't tell you what he wants in a clear fashion. Advocates af baby sign language claim that kids are calmer if they can sign what they want instead of trying to communicate verbally. (It works pretty well with my own son, who's nearly three and has a speech delay.)

One thing we do is walk away when he throws a tantrum. If he's doing it to get attention, he'll stop after a few moments.

Hope this helps.


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Thanks for answering! :-)




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