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Q: I am in love with this guy that I met at camp about two and a half weeks ago. I can tell him anything and he can tell me everything. We are not going out right now becasue he already has a girlfriend. He told me that he wants to go out with me but he's not sure because he doesnt want to have a long distance relashionship. We live in different townships...but we call and text each other every day. I really LOVE him. I would kill myself for him if I had to. but... what if it doesnt work out in the end?? I don't know what I would do.. He is my EVERYTHING!! Please help me out!! : )
Eh, having a long distance relationship is Really tough. I was going to do it once... But I thought about it and decided against it. Only for the reasons of, Not being able to see her.. Which is the main reason they usually don't work out, but if your ok with that, and there can be trust issues because you have no clue what he does while hes away from you. Also.. You said he has a girlfriend... What if you end up dating and he does the same thing to you as hes doing to his current girlfriend.. Which is talking to another girl. Since you do know that he does it, how do you know you'll be able to trust him.

My point is, I don't think long distant relationships work out =(. I'm sorry.
I mean if you can get him to have a long distant relationship and you want to Try... Then do what you gotta do, but always remember there is a great possibility it might not work out how you planned it, which can cause more hurt later on as you get attached to him.
Thanks for coming to me for advice. I'm here if you need anything else or just wanna talk. =D

Best of Luck!
-AM

Thanks!! You are probably saving me from getting hurt!! : )

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