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Hi all,
I came to this site by chance and now that I have arrived I hope I can be of some help. I'm known to be blunt but my bark is worse than my bite:-). I believe people deserve honesty and not to just be told what they want to hear all the time so that is my approach. I have had a lot of ups and downs through life and I have turned a lot of negatives into positives. I have also learned a lot about the nature of people through my trials and hopefully I may be able to help someone help themselves to continue living a happy and prosperous life. Thanks for the opportunity!

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so ive asked questions on here before about my stepmom and family sit or whatever but here I am again. so..
Im supposed to be going to my dads in Nevada in like 2 weeks. im way excited because i love my Dad and miss him like crazy. I also love my stepmum but havent been real close with her and want to be. any ideas of some fun stuff her and I can do together? My mom is still being nasty about mhy dad as usual but after tlking with a skool councelor and stuff i know she acts this way because she is kind of jealous that my dad has remarried and is happy and she hasnt done that yet so i just ignore her. any ideas for stuff to do in that area? thnks!

I think TMZ was on the right track about finding places of interest for your step mom and you to enjoy. Another possibility is that she may be interested in what you like to do as well in order to continue forming a bond with you. In that case I would pick equal amounts of activities that fulfill both goals so that you will both enjoy your time together. I have lived inmy town all of my life but I still have to get on the internet to find out places of interest sometimes so try on line! You may be surprised with what you come up with, and as for your mom, put her on a need to know basis. I have children and I am divorced and at first it used to hurt to think of them[kids] being close to someone that I am no longer with and that they are happy ex and new spouse] while I was miserable but I soon got over that. The less I know the better and I realize the kids have a right to have meaningful relationships with their dad and his new spouse so be happy and have fun. I hope this was of some use to you...

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(Rating: 5) thank you so very much. It was great to have an opinion from the "ex wife". I wish my mom could open up and not be so bitter. after all she is the one that left my dad. i dont know why she is mad at him all the time. thanks so much for your advice. i rlly appreciate it :-)
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