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Hello, I recently had sex for my first time on Sunday, the 22nd.

I bled, A LOT and he said I was extremely tight.

Well to my question, its been about 4 days and I'm still in pain down there. I have bloody discharge, and it hurts when I pee. I also have had no appetite for the 4 days and when I do try to eat I just feel really sick, and feel like I'm going to throw up.

How long did you hurt after your first time & is this normal or should I be worried ?

Thanks so much

It depends on the person. I bled a lot my first time too. Being tight is very normal. You could have torn a bit, especially if you weren't really ready and most teenage boys don't worry overmuch about making sure their partner is ready. The feeling sick could be from guilt for having sex, regret for having sex or just sheer panic at the thought you could be pregnant. If you are close to starting your period you could have discomfort from the sexual activity that is increased by the fact you are close to starting your period. I wouldn't worry at this point.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot !
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