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16/m
ok so i broke up with my girlfriend two nights ago
so i've been going out with this girl for a year and 3 months or so. i loved her very much. very, very much, and i still care very much about her, but i just wasn't happy anymore. i wasn't having fun anymore with her. all our conversations were becoming nothing other than "i love you's" and talking about sex and stuff (we never had it. . . got kind of close a couple times). we fought a lot recently, particularly about how much we saw each other (at least once a week) and that i was putting my music (i'm in a band) before her (which shouldn't happen apparently), and it was starting to stress me out way too much. i got little sleep and worried about it a lot. . .
and then i couldn't do it anymore.
i still really care a lot about her, and in the back of my mind i feel like i made a really big mistake. . . but the rest of me thinks it's for the better.
could anyone help me out here?
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The fact that you feel thankful proves that this relationship wasn't the right thing for you right now. You needed to take a break, and that is just what you did. So far, you've done everything right. When girls get pushy and demanding, you have to let them cool down. If she cares about you enough to start over, then maybe it's worth it. If you were ever to get back into the relationship, you would have to first talk to her about your priorities and what role she would play in your life. But for now, enjoy being single, focus on your band, and kick ass.
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