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okay. so last night my best friend called me and told me that her and her bf had sex. it was her first time. well at first i was a little mad. because she had just told me that she was gonna wait a while. but i got over that. now im just upset because her bf is such an ass. he thinks he always has to have things his way. then he ends up getting them. and starts gloating and being a jackass about it. i know that they love each other. and dont for one minute think that they should break up. but a lot of times i think that, sex is the majority of what he wants, and she says that too. she told me that she told him that they arent gonna do it all the time. but i know they'll end up doing it. prob. again 2mrw which is the next time they are seeing each other. I know that there is nothing that i can do about what has happend, and that its there choice. but if she keeps always giving him what he wants then hes going to end up walking all over her.

Yep, you are right about everything you just said!

She has to do what she wants to do and not do what she isn't comfortable doing and sometimes by trying to get her not to will make her want to even more, so just support your friend and ENCOURAGE HER TO USE PROTECTION, to prevent std's or pregnancy.

IF that's ALL he wants from her, she will wake up and see it, just be there for her when she does so that can make the right decision for her life, happiness and future! You're a great freind because of your concerns for her. I admire that.

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(Rating: 5) thank you for the advice. and fyi. she does use did use protection. she knows that she has to do that.
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